A reflection by Sharon Nelsen
For the first Sunday of the New Year, the Church proclaims Psalm 72:
“For he shall rescue the poor when he cries out,And the afflicted when he has no one to help him.He shall have pity for the lowly and the poor;The lives of the poor he shall save.” (12-13)
The question for us is not will God help us, will God help
the most desperate among us, the most desperate within each one of us? The question is not will God, but how will
God save us? How does God want to save
the lives of the poor? How does God want
to rescue those of us afflicted with broken relationships, festering and
wounded spirits, addictions of all kinds, mental and physical diseases,
poverty, helplessness, hopelessness, bondages?
Over the years, in praying with small groups, I recognize a
polarization between believing in the power of prayer, one’s own or the prayers
of others, and in believing in the power of medical treatment, social outreach
ministries and material resources. I
found it more common than I anticipated for good praying Christians to fall
into an either-or mentality, thinking that faith means God comes singularly with
a mighty ZAP, or, that God works only through what has been scientifically
discovered, manpower and resources.
Recently, I was reviewing a section of a book, The Healing
of Families: How to Pray Effectively for Those Stubborn Personal and Familial
Problems, and found a wonderful wording that addresses one aspect of how our
wounded condition affects our prayer. Father
Yosefu-Balikuddembe Ssemakula, or Father Joseph, as he so graciously translates
his name for us, says:
Watching this happen over a
period of time, my hypothesis crystallized as follows: God dwells in people, and anything that
isolates us from people isolates us from God.
He meets us in people and we meet Him in people, this is why our faith
in God is always to do with relations with others. When traumatic situations happen, for the
most part caused by people to people, the victim, because of the hurt,
experiences an automatic isolation from “people”, whether personally from that
person, or even any people who in some way may remind the victim of the
offender, even if just a simple resemblance.
This therefore leaves the person (the victim) on a bad note with people,
which note the Lord doesn’t want to underscore by healing the person directly
or miraculously, or the person will be confirmed in this negative view of
people in general: people are bad, they do me harm; but my God is the only good
one as he heals me! This attitude
obviously becomes a problem to the God who always comes to us through
people. He would be setting Himself up
to be systematically missed by this person, as the person will be looking up to
a God in the sky, the good God, surely not in people of whom the person may
naturally tend to be suspicious. So what does God do? It seems God prefers first to seek out other
people who will first undo the traumatic damage done by the first person, or at
least some of it, and then He comes in with His own healing power to heal
whatever else remains to be healed. What
is the effect of this? The person
remains on a good note with people: yes, there may be people who do harm, but
there are also good people, like the one who helped me redress my trauma, you
just have to look for them. The trauma
victim’s openness to people seems to be what the Lord intends to obtain first,
by not short-cutting the healing of heavy trauma. (Pages 254-55)
This dynamic resonates with my forty years of leading prayer
in small faith-sharing groups. First,
Father Joseph names the lie that begins the isolation process—“People won’t
help me; only God will help me.” This
lie generates another that lays the heavy burden of “having enough faith” on
one person: “I have to generate the faith that will in turn generate the
healing response for me.” Or, another
lie that only holier others can pray
effectively--the Contemplative Orders, the Ordained, someone who expresses
prayer “better” than I do. The truth is,
it’s me and thee. I agree with Father
Joseph’s hypothesis that God’s primary desire is that the humanity He created, creates
and heals in community, not in isolation.
So, what does God want us to do? I hear God saying, “Adios, Lone Ranger!” First, get in touch with our own tendencies
toward isolation. Then, with Jesus, gather
together and share our neediness, our brokenness, our giftedness, our resources
and talents with each other. Share them
in meaningful, concrete, open and obvious ways, with trust in, and respect for,
each other. Pray together, hold what we
hear as a sacred trust, and move out together, strengthened by each other’s
expertise, talents and insights.
God could have sent Jesus as the greatest Zapper of all
times. Zap, you’re healed, Zap, the
world is healed. But the way God shows
us through Jesus is that the power to transform the world resides in each one
of us, individually and collectively. Jesus
chose to form community and to work in community as the Master Teacher.
Ben Franklin said, “The Lord helps those who help
themselves.” Followers of Jesus say,
“The Lord helps us to help ourselves”—and we interpret the plural form
collectively.
A hundred years ago, God cried out, “There are lonely,
abandoned boys living on the streets of Omaha--whom can I send to help
them?” One person responded, “Send
me! I’ll do what I can.” He begins, others join him and together a healing
home is created—Boys Town.
While suffering is caused by humans who harm, healing happens
when we as a people hear and respond to God’s invitation to rescue the poor,
the one who has no one to help him.
A note for our readers, there have been some pastoral (not magisterial) concerns raised about Father Joseph's work. In the interest of our readers having all the information they need in their spiritual jouneys we are including a link to the Fathers of Mercy website for more information: http://fathersofmercy.com/events/official-statement-fathers-mercy-healing-families/
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Healing always involves relationships...what a truism...Good reflection (Sharon? - it is not signed).
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It is Sharon, I will fix that ASAP!
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