By: Larry T
According to non-canonical sources Joseph was born in Bethlehem
in 90 B.C. and is thought to have died in 18 A.D. Biblical scholars generally
fix the year of Jesus’ birth at 6 or 7 B.C. So Joseph could have been eighty
something when Jesus was born. By all accounts Joseph, a descendant of King David,
was a righteous and compassionate man, a devout observer of Mosaic Law, and
known to be a man of profound faith.
Jewish maidens were considered marriageable at the age of
twelve years and six months, though the actual age of the bride varied with
circumstances. By most accounts Mary was fourteen at the time of her betrothal
to Joseph. By mutual consent and understanding between the spouses, Mary was to
be a virgin, so her pregnancy would have astonished and shocked Joseph. Since the
mystery of the Incarnation hadn’t yet been revealed to him, Mary’s condition presented
him with a dreadful decision. On one hand she was clearly guilty of adultery,
and if he exposed her scandalous pregnancy she would have been stoned to death.
On the other hand stoning was a slow torturous death; he couldn’t bear the
thought of it, so he decided to divorce her quietly. But, the Lord had other
plans for him.
20 Such was his intention when, behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her.
21 She will bear a son and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”- Mt 1:20-21 N.A.B
Joseph’s fidelity to God was sorely tested by this dream.
He could have easily ignored it and continued with his plan to divorce Mary
quietly, but, with Abram-like faith in God, Joseph took her into his home.
Herod’s fury at the deception of the magi put
Joseph’s trust and devotion to God to yet another test.
13 When they had departed,
behold, the angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Rise,
take the child and his mother, flee to Egypt, and stay there until I tell you.
Herod is going to search for the child to destroy him.”
14 Joseph rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed for Egypt.
– Mt 2:13, 14 N.A.B.
14 Joseph rose and took the child and his mother by night and departed for Egypt.
– Mt 2:13, 14 N.A.B.
And just as Abram before him heeded God’s call to leave his home in
Haran and travel to the land of Canaan (Gen 12:4-6 N.A.B.), Joseph heeded God’s
command to flee with Mary and the infant Jesus to safety in Egypt.
15 He stayed there until the
death of Herod, that what the Lord had said through the prophet might be
fulfilled, “Out of Egypt I called my son.” - Mt 2:15 N.A.B.
The Lord had yet more
directions for his obedient servant.
19 When Herod had died, behold,
the angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt
20 and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child’s life are dead.”
21 He rose, took the child and his mother, and went to the land of Israel.
22 But when he heard that Archelaus was ruling over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go back there. And because he had been warned in a dream, he departed for the region of Galilee.
23 He went and dwelt in a town called Nazareth, so that what had been spoken through the prophets might be fulfilled, “He shall be called a Nazorean.” – Mt 2:19-23 N.A.B.
20 and said, “Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child’s life are dead.”
21 He rose, took the child and his mother, and went to the land of Israel.
22 But when he heard that Archelaus was ruling over Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go back there. And because he had been warned in a dream, he departed for the region of Galilee.
23 He went and dwelt in a town called Nazareth, so that what had been spoken through the prophets might be fulfilled, “He shall be called a Nazorean.” – Mt 2:19-23 N.A.B.
Mary was most likely born in Jerusalem, though some
theologians insist on Bethlehem or Sephoris (about three miles north of
Bethlehem). She was the daughter of Joachim and Anne. Joachim belonged to the
royal family of David, and Anne was a descendant of the priestly family of
Aaron. It’s for this reason that Jesus is said to have come from both a royal
and priestly family.
The childless Joachim and Anne had prayed long and hard
for the gift a child, and when Mary came they presented her to the Lord in the
Temple. Our Church celebrates the Presentation as a revelation of Mary’s total
dedication to God’s service and obedience to His will. Some early Church
Fathers wrote that Mary was three years old at the time of the Presentation and
that she remained in the Temple to be educated with other children. There she
also made a vow of virginity and enjoyed ecstatic visions and daily visits of
the holy angels.
Why would she consent to marry Joseph when she had made a
vow of virginity? Mary must have had implicit trust in the Divine guidance that
she had received, and therefore was certain that her vow would be kept even in
her married state.
Her “Behold, I am
the handmaid of the Lord.” shouldn’t be a surprise considering her
background.
34 But Mary said to the angel,
“How can this be, since I have no relations with a man?”
35 And the angel said to her in reply, “The holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.
36 And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren;
37 for nothing will be impossible for God.”
38 Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. – Lk 1:34-38 N.A.B.
35 And the angel said to her in reply, “The holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. Therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.
36 And behold, Elizabeth, your relative, has also conceived a son in her old age, and this is the sixth month for her who was called barren;
37 for nothing will be impossible for God.”
38 Mary said, “Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word.” Then the angel departed from her. – Lk 1:34-38 N.A.B.
Her virgin pregnancy was another matter. How could she
explain it to Joseph? The penalty for adultery was stoning, so her life was in
imminent danger. She wouldn’t be able to conceal her condition for long. If
Joseph didn’t report it, her neighbors and relatives were certain to do so.
How much trust in God did it take to sustain her through
the trials of the birth of Jesus, the desperate flight to Egypt, and return to Nazareth?
Can we even begin to comprehend the devotion to God it must have taken for Mary
to stand at the foot of the cross, watching in silence and horror, as her son
suffered the most punishing death the Romans could devise.
The
Holy Family faced untold hardships on their hasty flight to the safety of
Egypt. But their combined faith and trust in God enabled them to prevail over danger
and overcome unimaginable difficulties. We also know that they didn’t have much
money because on the eighth day following the birth of Jesus, when Joseph and
Mary went up to the Temple to present him to the Lord, their sacrificial
offering was a pair of birds. This
suggests that they couldn’t afford to buy an animal for the sacrifice, a sign
that they were poor (Lv 12:6 N.A.B.).
On this Sunday as we celebrate the Feast of the Holy
Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph, we might ask ourselves what they have to
teach us. Is there a greater example of faith and trust in God for us to
imitate? Do we need a better illustration of how trust in the Lord can give us the
strength to overcome hardship and persevere in the face of adversity? Who can
deny that God’s Holy Family was comprised of a man, a woman, and a child?
